Hired the president’s son?
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Dear Yojna,
It seems like you're facing a very delicate situation, and your concern about managing the president's son in your team is understandable. It’s tricky when family dynamics enter the workplace, especially when they appear to create potential issues with authority and team morale.
Here are two ways you could approach the situation, depending on your comfort level with the power dynamics at play:
Option One: Address the Behaviour Directly with the Son
You can address the behavior head-on with a candid conversation. This would be a difficult but important step in setting clear boundaries. You might consider explaining the following points:
Your Role and Expectations: Make it clear that your job is to help him succeed in his current position and that you value his ideas. However, you can emphasize that he needs to learn how to navigate his current role first before attempting to implement changes.
Respecting the Chain of Command: Kindly but firmly explain that going over your head to his father or bypassing your authority is inappropriate. Reinforce that part of being in this role is respecting the organizational structure and reporting lines.
Team Responsibilities: Let him know that all team members are expected to attend meetings and actively participate. Outline that this is non-negotiable and that commitment to the team’s work is vital for success.
Performance Expectations: Be very clear that his behavior and performance are being evaluated just like everyone else’s. Explain that privilege based on family connections is not something you endorse. If his behavior doesn’t change, he could face consequences.
Engage HR (Optional): If you think it’s appropriate, you might involve HR to ensure they are aware of the situation. They can help mediate, provide advice, or intervene as needed.
In some cases, involving his father might be necessary, but you need to carefully assess whether this will help or make things more complicated. If the father is unaware of the issue and can back you up, this could be a solution. However, if the father’s intervention feels like an endorsement of poor behavior, you may need to take a stronger stance on your own.
Option Two: Wait for the Situation to Resolve
If you don’t feel secure enough to confront the son directly or involve his father, you may have to bide your time, hoping that the situation resolves itself as his career progresses. However, this comes with its own risks, including losing respect from your team and potentially causing tension between you and other colleagues who may feel you're letting a disruptive behavior slide.
It’s essential to weigh your own job security and the potential fallout of not addressing this issue head-on. While it may seem easier to avoid conflict, this could eventually harm your reputation and damage your team’s cohesion.
In my experience with family businesses, we’ve learned that nepotism only works if the family members involved demonstrate extraordinary commitment to the company’s values. If the president’s son doesn’t start performing up to those expectations, it’s going to become very clear to others. This behavior won’t be sustainable in the long run.
Final Thought
It’s a tough call, but I think you should lean toward addressing the situation directly. By setting boundaries and reinforcing clear expectations, you help ensure that he learns to navigate his role without relying on his family connections. At the same time, make sure you have the support you need from HR or senior leadership to back you up if needed.
Stay calm, be assertive, and remember that at the end of the day, your job is to lead your team and ensure their success. Don't let one person’s behavior undermine that.
Best regards,
Yogesh